Comments on: Approaching from a Woman’s perspective http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/ Helping people to connect with themselves so that they can connect better with others Sat, 11 Sep 2010 00:27:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Scott http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/comment-page-1/#comment-13 Scott Thu, 30 Jul 2009 18:52:41 +0000 http://authenticdatingclub.com/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/#comment-13 Chocolate Thunder has spoken!!! Chocolate Thunder has spoken!!!

]]> By: Miss Mercedes http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/comment-page-1/#comment-12 Miss Mercedes Tue, 28 Jul 2009 15:21:56 +0000 http://authenticdatingclub.com/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/#comment-12 I commented back there as well. Thanks! :-)<br /><br />I can't decide whether the word I should use as far as my interest in the Seduction Community is "interest", "curious", "fascinated" or "confused"...lol<br /><br />I'm thinking you'll see an email from me soon...<br /><br />M I commented back there as well. Thanks! :-)

I can't decide whether the word I should use as far as my interest in the Seduction Community is "interest", "curious", "fascinated" or "confused"…lol

I'm thinking you'll see an email from me soon…

M

]]> By: Terrance Thames http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/comment-page-1/#comment-11 Terrance Thames Tue, 28 Jul 2009 00:08:12 +0000 http://authenticdatingclub.com/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/#comment-11 Thanks mercedes. By the way..I left a comment for you on rori's blog. If you want anymore info on the Seduction community email me and I can shed a lot more light on what I found and what I got out of it. Thanks mercedes. By the way..I left a comment for you on rori's blog. If you want anymore info on the Seduction community email me and I can shed a lot more light on what I found and what I got out of it.

]]> By: Miss Mercedes http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Miss Mercedes Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:14:58 +0000 http://authenticdatingclub.com/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/#comment-10 Terrance: Most of my comments/questions about this are on Rori's blog and I hope you can help with taking me inside the mind of some of you men. LOL but in any case, I hope the two of you have a great time on your date! I'm sure she's excited...because she's right, so many times men assume a woman is being asked out constantly when in reality, she's not being approached at all.<br /><br />Mercedes Terrance: Most of my comments/questions about this are on Rori's blog and I hope you can help with taking me inside the mind of some of you men. LOL but in any case, I hope the two of you have a great time on your date! I'm sure she's excited…because she's right, so many times men assume a woman is being asked out constantly when in reality, she's not being approached at all.

Mercedes

]]> By: Terrance Thames http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Terrance Thames Mon, 27 Jul 2009 15:40:07 +0000 http://authenticdatingclub.com/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/#comment-9 MM- I know what you mean. I think that there are a lot of women like that.<br /><br />For instance, the other night I was at a bar with some friends and I went to get a drink and saw a very attractive girl at the bar. I started talking to her very casually. She quickly started talking about how she doesn't get approached very often at all and doesn't date much because she feels that guys are intimidated by her. She started telling me several times that she is a nice girl and its frustrating that no genuinely confident guys approach her. She just wanted a high quality guy. We made plans to go out soon. MM- I know what you mean. I think that there are a lot of women like that.

For instance, the other night I was at a bar with some friends and I went to get a drink and saw a very attractive girl at the bar. I started talking to her very casually. She quickly started talking about how she doesn't get approached very often at all and doesn't date much because she feels that guys are intimidated by her. She started telling me several times that she is a nice girl and its frustrating that no genuinely confident guys approach her. She just wanted a high quality guy. We made plans to go out soon.

]]> By: Miss Mercedes http://www.authenticdatingarts.com/blog/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Miss Mercedes Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:08:16 +0000 http://authenticdatingclub.com/approaching-from-a-womans-perspective/#comment-8 Risk failure-if your intuition tells you that a woman is approaching you or wanting you to spproach, APPROACH. Even if you fail, your intuition will grow and you will be able to eventually, more skillfully, be able to recognize these female approaches.<br /><br /><br />I like that. I'm one of those women who would never approach, however, I'm out there and open and having lots of conversations with lots of people (usually men). Seeing me can be intimidating for men, but that's because there are usually lots of other people around me. <br /><br />I'm not single, but here's how single women who are a lot like me feel when they're out and hoping to connect with a man:<br /><br />I'm generally not sitting alone and waiting to be approached...but that doesn't mean I'm not interested or wouldn't stop what I'm doing to speak with you and welcome you into whatever circle of people I've found myself in. Sometimes, it's not just the shy girl/guys who go home alone...it's the outgoing ones too and it's because of the intimidation factor. I like guys who will take a risk with that. But...because there are so few men with the confidence to do that, I end up alone.<br /><br />I remember hearing Janet Jackson (at her gorgeous prime) say: Why am I single? Because guys are too afraid to ask me out and I don't like the thought of asking them out. It's a lose lose situation.<br /><br />Anyway...cool post...<br /><br />Mercedes Risk failure-if your intuition tells you that a woman is approaching you or wanting you to spproach, APPROACH. Even if you fail, your intuition will grow and you will be able to eventually, more skillfully, be able to recognize these female approaches.

I like that. I'm one of those women who would never approach, however, I'm out there and open and having lots of conversations with lots of people (usually men). Seeing me can be intimidating for men, but that's because there are usually lots of other people around me.

I'm not single, but here's how single women who are a lot like me feel when they're out and hoping to connect with a man:

I'm generally not sitting alone and waiting to be approached…but that doesn't mean I'm not interested or wouldn't stop what I'm doing to speak with you and welcome you into whatever circle of people I've found myself in. Sometimes, it's not just the shy girl/guys who go home alone…it's the outgoing ones too and it's because of the intimidation factor. I like guys who will take a risk with that. But…because there are so few men with the confidence to do that, I end up alone.

I remember hearing Janet Jackson (at her gorgeous prime) say: Why am I single? Because guys are too afraid to ask me out and I don't like the thought of asking them out. It's a lose lose situation.

Anyway…cool post…

Mercedes

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